If You Were

It has been said that rare is the person who can weigh the faults of others without putting his thumb on the scales.

Among of our greatest failings as humans is our propensity to be critical of others. It seems that, in today’s WOKE world, our obsession with our differences has spawned a mutual enmity within our political foundations, our dialogues with each other, and in any traditional appreciation of our cultural uniqueness. Today, the denigration of  others has become our national pastime. The human fallibility we all share is tempting us all too often into the crushing trap of building ourselves up by tearing others down.

One of my favorite passages in scripture is found in Matthew’s Gospel, Chapter 7, verses 1–5:

“Stop judging, that you may not be judged. For as you judge, so shall you be judged, and the measure with which you measure will be measured out to you. Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye, but do not perceive the wooden beam in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me remove that splinter from your eye,’ while the wooden beam is in your eye? You hypocrite, remove the wooden beam from your eye first; then you will see clearly to remove the splinter from your brother’s eye.”

The following poem by an author unknown, reminds us of whose and what responsibilities we should take care of first and foremost:

If You Were

If you were busy being kind,

Before you knew it, you would find,

You’d soon forget to think ‘twas true

That someone was unkind to you.

 

If you were busy being glad,

And cheering people who were sad,

Although your heart might ache a bit,

You’d soon forget to notice it.

 

If you were busy being good,

And doing just the best you could,

You’d not have time to blame some man

Who’s doing just the best he can.

 

If you were busy being right,

You’d find yourself to busy quite

To criticize your neighbor long

Because he’s busy being wrong.

 

We all have weaknesses. But I have figured that others have put up with mine so tolerantly that I would be less than fair not to make a reasonable discount for theirs. – William Allen White

 Have an AWE-full weekend!

William “Bill” Bacque